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The process of learning every human being through four stages, ie, unconscious Incompetence, Conscious Incompetence, Conscious competence, and unconscious competence. The four stages starting from the first stage, we do not know if we do not know, after interaction with the adults finally know, then we have the perfect awareness, and finally back again does not realize that we have to be perfect because the caliber of work automatically.
When a skill has been to enter the stage of unconscious competence since that time, when the intervention is not done consciously, this skill will work with the principle of automatic pilot. The same applies also to the skill of thinking, a note bene expertise is mind itself. Automatic pilot work to ease our lives. Will be executed by the automatic pilot system is a program / practice the most powerful.
One of the basic human needs of a very prominent is the need for consistency. When your mind has decided to accept something as "truth" then it will be consistent with the "truth" is. "The Truth" is not necessarily in line with the "truth" that we accept the truth. "Truth" according to the mind in line with the thinking mind itself is supported with a variety of experience that we ever experienced.
"The Truth" is known by the term belief. So, once thought to adopt a belief then this belief that control the mind. Without the intervention of the conscious life is controlled entirely by our belief that many have been adopted and we believe the truth (Lipton, 2006).
When we trust / belief of the truth then we will no longer question the validity of data or base pijak think that is used as a basis for acceptance of a belief. Our belief is always true according to us. Correct according to our not necessarily true according to other people.
Our efforts with all the resources we will maintain the belief that because we decided that "something" that is the right thing. The period of the doubts we have decided our "truth"?
How to get out of prison, my mind is a trap with a door through awareness. Only through the door of awareness we can realize that we are not our thoughts, our feelings are not we, we is not our habit, and is even more important is that we are not our belief. We can create awareness to do the dissociation or separation of the obvious.
With awareness we can do or think about metakognisi mind. With the mind to think and then we finally know "her" mind. We will know the pattern or habit of mind to do. With awareness we can understand that thought, even though the tools are very exceptional, but only a small part of the awareness itself.
How to observe with the mind is to be silent. We need to familiarize themselves "walk" in the silence. Only with the still in the quiet we thought we able to observe clearly.
Mind like a glass of water is turbid due to dirt or particles containing a small (read: the thought). In muddy conditions we will not be able to see beyond the glass of water. We will not be able to see and observe the various components that make the water (read: mind) become clouded.
Then, how to be able to see the small particles that pollute the water? How do I to be able to see beyond the clouded glass? Once again, the way is easy. Put the glass containing the water turbid and leave for some time. Do not shake or poke stirred. Leave it alone.
Lapse of some time that the dirt-dirt will begin to settle itself, without the need we strived. After all sediment in the water glass to be very clear. Dirt that will go down to the basic glass and be very easily observed. We will also be able to see beyond glass.
Observation of the mind will lead us in the introduction and in depth understanding of our policy, which is called the key door opener our freedom.
Bill Gould, my chum, always leave a message, "Adi, if you want to keep growing, you have to challenge everything. Even your own thinking and beliefs. "
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Questions can change lives. I feel this. The questions on themselves. "Change Your Question, Change Your Life" ...
Here are some questions that mental attitude I get from the book "Guide to Investing" edition GPU, Robert TK essay:
1. Do you plan for the rich or for poor?
2. Do you carefully consider the mind-your own little mind that is often tight-lipped?
3. Are you willing to spend some time to improve your financial vocabulary? The first goal of the new financial vocabulary can make it is made. Look for a new word, find meaning in the dictionary, find more than one definition for that word, and remind yourself to use the word in a sentence in one weekend.
Words appear from the mind, mind arises from the reality and the reality of life becomes. The main difference between the rich and the poor have the words they use. If you want to change the external reality someone, need to first change the internal reality is. That is done through the first business to change, improve or update the words he used. If you want to change your life, first change the words. And there, the words are free.
Yahh, I had also previously sharing. Words in a big success, happiness.
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In my experience working and interacting with people, I have observed two types of people in the issues or problem, both in work and social life. Two types of this is reactive (responding as problems come) and receptive (to accept the problem).
Reactive
They are usually reactive to see the problem as a threat. Somehow a threat to his career, business, family, and so forth. In this group you find a solution to the problem using the traditional and logical approach. Characteristics-characteristics:
* Once the problem you're likely to come soon find any way to address them.
* The problem seen as a growth factor barricade themselves.
* You will soon be a strategy to tackle
* Due to a problem seen as a threat, he will tend to dominate the mind and cause fear and stress.
When you work in the company, perhaps you were asked to lead a project for which you are responsible for achieving a certain target. Here you are faced with situations that require analysis, justification, and logical reasoning, in the challenges or problems that arise. You will be in condition to meet the deadline depressed. Able to guess, you are likely to use reactive approach in solving problems.
Receptive
This approach is usually practiced by those who already realize that the problem is not a threat but the consequences that would arise from a condition that we create. Thus we have the power to change the conditions of the self. You want to accept the problem and at the same time make-solusinya.Ciri characteristics:
When problems come, you approach it and use:
* The problem is the opposite of the solution. When a problem arises, you believe that time is also a solution that already exists.
You focus on the solution of problems which arise, not the cause of the problem. Thus, you take over control from within your own, rather than be controlled by outside circumstances.
* The problem is the opportunity for self development. You see it as an opportunity to create a positive reality in your life.
Would like to receive the problem does not mean silence. You do not "fire beard" but to recognize the problem calmly and make themselves responsive to you all you need to invite solutions.
The most simple example is when you love a pair (eg, wife, husband, or boyfriend) are cranky because of trivial issues. With the reactive approach, you will only aggravate the situation with a wonder why he must be cranky, analyze the cause and feel this will threaten the harmonious relationship with you. Solutions that are not available but it is worries and concerns.
Receptive to the approach, you receive a pair and realize that you are angry. You focus your energy to create a love that is in essence a opponent's anger. You are not involved protracted atmosphere - trying to find answers from the analysis of why he was so angry - but it took over control from within themselves, keep quiet thinking, and showed positive attitude in your behavior. You will feel that it is in this situation would make you grow. You create a positive quality of your surface and have become a law of nature behave like this with your partner will be changed from angry to be in love.
Receptive to this approach, you can practice in the life of a business, household, and social. Basically you build your confidence that the real problem is not so that you do not feel difficult. Latih yourself for not reactive when a problem arises. Focus on your opponent's problem, the solution, to find the control and not dissolved in it.
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