motivation

Why do we make things worse for ourselves? Because the bad things that bring pleasure. Cause excessive eating enjoyment. Sleeping, shopping, watching TV is also such excess. Bliss is something that we find. So we find it of all things, including bad for us though.

Let's ask why once again: "Why do we do?"

I find the reason. You also likely know already. In ourselves there is ego. The ego that becomes the source. Ego is encouraging that we continue to get enjoyment.

In ourselves there is any sense. Ego and the sense such pair. Both have the same goal. Equally encouraging us to get that pleasure. The difference, just like the ego pleasure shortly. Are in the sense like the long-term enjoyment.

Ego and the sense to give a result when dituruti. Keep the ego makes us get the right comfort and long-term suffering. Keep the sense make us get a long-term pleasure and pain arise. Nurani lead so that we act fairly and in accordance with needs. Ego lead us to act in order to maximize the enjoyment and excessive shortly.

For example eating. Eating keep the sense is eating enough. Not excessive, and healthy. So belly will be filled one third of food, drink, a third, a third air. Keep the ego to make meals we eat and drink until full. Without leaving room for air. As a result, the process of food metabolism is not optimal. Many foods that terbuang or stored as body fat. But excess body weight will occur.

And than, keep the food sense right cause suffering. We still want to eat, food is there. So when it stopped eating, we also suffer. Iya, kan?

That case related to the physical. What about the examples that are associated with emotions? The same. Emotions that keep the ego will and pleasure right solution, is also suffering and long-term problems. For example, your child is aged four years wrong. Main bath has been the ground for example. You memarahinya. Then the child will stop playing ground, and clean themselves and clothes. You are satisfied and the problem is finished.

Really?

No! Your child to stop play so that land. This is the right solution. You believe that your child's mistakes continue to be this way. You repeated repeatedly. Every day. Each time your child makes a mistake. Angry because you are using, then you are actually building a long-term problems. Your children obey you, just because he was still small and have no strength. But his heart hurt. But increasingly it is big and strong, long-term problems will start arising. What's that? Children who could be rebel or coward.

Anger is the emotion obey ego. The process begins from the exacerbation of the incident because there is not in accordance with your wishes or standards. Chapfallen emotion that is still internal. But so annoyed this ditambahi ego, then muncullah angry. Angry emotions are external. Emotions that come out of yourself. Expressed with words or deeds.

Chapfallen the same fact should not be angry. He can be patient. Patient who is annoyed and ditambahi world. World can make us stand on the suffering of sorts. Create suffering becomes momentarily peeved. But in the case of a child before, you can be patient even find creative ways to make your child stop play ground, without a hurt the children. Even make your child still rejoice

Sad is also emotional. When something or someone we care about is missing, then timbullah grief. This grief can be prolonged or quickly passed. What is so because? Prolonged sad because of the ego self. Sad that the world quickly passed the control.

Suppose you left your beloved is dearer. Ego will encourage you to think: "He should not do that. I just mencintainya. Why is he leaving me? I have been so good on it. I do not get treated like this. "Well, all thoughts of sadness that makes you the climb. When you are here, the blue will change to hate even revenge. Hate with love for behind. Revenge is the opposite of peace. With hate and revenge, you can melakuan matters worse was that the people you love.

What happens when you turuti world? Then world will whisper: "I mencintainya. He left me, it means that the best for himself. I know what is best for me, I own. I will accept this. I learned a lot. I will do the best for him "Nah, it is sad that encourages you to accept the incident. Even forgive. Both lovers forgive you, or forgive yourself. There is no hate. There is no revenge. You can continue living in peace. Grief you go extremely fast. Not possible, you will be grateful to you for all lovers good now even though he has left you. Wow, that's terrible ... world.

So, when a negative event, you automatically feel the negative emotions. Negative emotions but this is still internal. Will be the external negative emotions when you listen to and obey your ego. Therefore, when the nascent negative emotions, listen to and follow the word world. Then you will be always on tertuntun good. When you are well, any negative event will not be able to make your beremosi negative, said a negative word, especially a negative act. So your time is strong. Strong sterling ...

God gave us two legs to walk, two hands to hold, two ears to hear and two eyes to see. But why only God sekeping heart confer on us? Because God has given sekeping more careful in our search for someone. That is the name Love.

There are 2 drops of water flowing in a river. One drop of water tu greet tear the other one, "I tear a girl who loves a man but has been loss. Who are you? ". Answer drip watering second tu, "My tears of a man who regretted leaving a girl that I love only goes so."

True love is when he loves another person, and you are still able to smile, and said: I am happy to take part for you.

If we love someone, we will always pray it even though he is not with us.

Do not occasionally say goodbye if you still want to try. Do not give up occasionally if you still feel up. Do not say you do not occasionally love it more if you still can not forget it.

Feeling of love starts from the eye, while the sense of love starts from the ear. So if you want to stop someone like, close enough to the ear. But when you close your eyes Try of the person you love, love that turns to teardrop and continue to live in the hearts of men in the distance-time long enough.

Love comes to those who still have hope even though they have dikecewakan. To those who still believe, although they have been khianati. To those who still want to love, even though they have been previously sakiti and to those who have the courage and confidence to build trust again.

Do not store the words on the people who love tersayang until he died, because eventually you had recorded the words of love on his tomb. Instead say words of love that is saved is your dibenak now while there is life.

Maybe God wants us to meet and make with the wrong people before meeting with the right person, we must understand how to be grateful for the bounty of that.

Love teaches us not weak, but a strength. Love teaches us not humiliate ourselves, but against prowess. Not weaken the spirit of love, but a spirit-Hamka passed

Love can change bitter into sweet, golden dust switch, become cloudy cornea, sick are healed, well into the prison, suffered a favor, and anger into mercy.

Indeed painful for someone who does not mencintaimu, but more painful is love someone and you never have the courage to express your love to him.

It is sad in life is when you meet someone who is very mean to you. Only to find that in the end not to be mean and you have to leave his card away.

You know that you really miss someone, when you understand your heart berkeping destroyed.
And only with an "O" from it, can reunite the heart fragment.

God created the 100 love. 99 saved disisinya and only 1 was revealed to the world. With the love that one part of that, being mutual affection ber so that the horses legs for fear their children terpijak.

Sometimes you do not appreciate people who love you whole-heartedly, until you loss. At that time, there is no regret to go for it without saying more.

Do not love someone, such as flowers, because flowers die and again season switch. Such as the ones they love the river, the river flows forever.

Love is able to soften the iron, the stone, raise the dead, and breathed life and make him a slave leader. This is his great love!

The beginning of love is that you let people love to be himself, and does not change a picture you want. If not, you love only the reflection of yourself that you find in himself.

Love is a feeling that must have on every human being himself, he setetes like dew that fell from the sky, clean and pure. But land is different to receive it. If he fell to the barren land, to grow it because the moisture lie, fraudster, the oblique and other despicable things. But if he falls to the fertile land, there will grow kesuciaan heart, sincerity, faithful high moral character and other behavior that commendable. Hamka passed
Words of love are simply born in the mouth and not in the liver is able to destroy all life, whereas the words of love that is born from a sincere heart to be able to mengubati wound in the hearts of all who heard it.

You never know when you will fall in love. but when the time is up, Reach with both hands, and do not let him go with the feeling of a million mark dihatinya

Love is not cheap and commonplace words dituturkan of mouth but love is a gift of God is holy and beautiful if people can assess purity.

If his name is not sea water does not surge. Not if the name of love never hurt feelings. Inamorato name if not his heart did not crave and jealous.

Make it easy. To be beloved is also easy. But to be beloved by the people we love that it is difficult to obtain.

The only way we acquire love, is not demanding that we loved, but start to give affection to other people without expecting a reply.

At a time that there is a hawk lay, he realized without the eggs have a tree fall down, the eggs are found by a chicken and eggs brought by the return of chicken, eggs, eagle is treated the same as chicken eggs, egg-own. So that in a moment menetaslah eagle eggs together with the egg-egg the other.

Day by day the child lives as a hawk chicken tirinya brother, looking for worms, play with the chicken-chicken, so that in a while there he saw a hawk flying above them, he terpana see the eagle is flying free diangkasa. "well the eagle can fly free" said the eagle is the child, "do not dream deh, chicken nga eh you can fly as they" said stepsister is the eagle. Days passed, weeks after week and year by year the child is not elang can fly until the end of his life, he only lives like a chicken.

Conclusion of the story we are all born as the fact (like hawk) but we often are in the scope of employee / employee (like chicken) often we are only on day-to-day routines, we do not want to learn to fly, afraid we will fall but after we take it we will be free to fly in the air. Once this beautiful world.
So how about you? What is still a chicken? or start learning now clap your eagle wings even with the risk you have to fall, each learning certainly have failed (fell).

"Never mind, just be grateful that there is!"

This sentence is often addressed to those who have great ambition. Even to people who only want to improve the standard of living is also often get the "advice" like this. As if this sentence is wise but still save a great question, meaning betulkan was grateful to receive what is already there without hope more favors again?

If the definition is correct, then the command will not have to tend to humanity. Why if we tend to favor is enough already? The command is grateful to acknowledge the command and grateful for all God's favor. Without exception, including a grace not we try and we try to favor. So there is no correlation that we are quite grateful favor the existing course.

The second, in paragraph 7 QS Ibrahim has clearly mentioned that we are grateful, and Allah will add to our favor. The third, we are also commanded by God and examplizeing by the Prophet to ask for additional berdo'a favor to God. Where is the explanation that told us not hope to get more favors again?

This is a confidence which will be a blunder on the part of the mindset of Islam. They have become an unwitting limitations in mind is that they are not actually entitled to favor the more. While they hope that favors more and better material favors maknawi, they fear to be grateful to people who do not.

This is a confidence which will be a blunder on the part of the mindset of Islam. They have become an unwitting limitations in mind is that they are not actually entitled to favor the more. While they hope that more favors favors both material and meaning, they are afraid to be the person who is not grateful.

That is we still entitled to a favor that much more delicious than that we already have a favor give an existing one. That is we should not try to find favor because of the favors that we have already. From now on let us change our mindset to be grateful to people who expect favors and more. Keep praying and trying to favor the more, and remain grateful for what we already receive. The two things we can do this simultaneously, must be even.