Wedding
7:08 AM | Author: setiya
Marriage is considered as an important turning point in the life of someone. Every young man or young woman hoping to meet with her dreams. Couples who both became the main goal in life and young people almost "indoctrinated" the importance of finding a good partner for him. But basically, the relationship between men and women do not have a solid foundation in the pagan community in the society whose members do not accept the Quranic way of life. "Friendship" is merely a romantic relationship in which both sexes look for emotional satisfaction. Meanwhile, the marriage is usually based on mutual material advantage. Many women trying to obtain "a successful man" because they expect a high standard of living. With such goals, a young girl can easily accept a loved one as he was not a life partner. In contrast, sought a man in a woman often is "beautiful face".

But pagan community perspective ignores a very important fact: all the material value will eventually crushed. God can take back one's wealth in an instant. Similarly, only takes a few seconds to lose a beautiful face. For example, if we are every day to go and return to work in big cities, whenever we can get an accident that may leave permanent scars, and terrible in the face. Meanwhile, the time cause damage beyond repair to health, strength, and our beauty. Under what conditions can not be predicted like that, what the consequences of a system based purely materialistic values? For example, imagine a man who married a woman just because she was impressed by the beautiful appearance. What would think if the woman's face was badly damaged in an accident? Will he leave her when he began to appear wrinkles on her face? The answer no doubt will reveal materialistic rationale makes no sense.

A marriage becomes valuable when intended solely to achieve the pleasure of Allah. If not, the marriage will be a burden both in this world and in nature afterward. If you are not in this world, people will eventually understand in the Hereafter, that this is not the proper way for the human soul. However, it was too late; penghisaban day, he would make his wife, who close to him in this world, as a ransom for her safety. The horror of that day will make all the connections in the world is losing meaning. God gave a detailed narrative about the relationship between family members the next day in the following paragraph

They were looking at each other. Infidels had he wanted to redeem from the punishment of the day with his children, and his wife and his brother, and kindred who sheltered. (Surat al MA'AARIJ: 11-13)

It is clear from this verse that humans no longer be tied to the interests of any woman, friend, brother or female, penghisaban day. In their attempts desperately to be rescued, any person willing to make a close family or relatives as a ransom for their own safety. Moreover, these people will be cursing because they do not have to remind each other about such a horrible end. In the Qur'an, said of Abu Lahab who received punishment for eternity in hell with his wife:

Perish the hands of Abu Lahab and indeed he will perish. It is not beneficial to him their possessions and what they earn. Later he would enter into a turbulent flame. And his wife, carrying firewood. Which a rope around his neck from the fiber. (Surat al-Masad, 111: 1-5)

Type of marriage acceptable to God is based on the criteria completely different. Contrary to the usual wedding in pagan society, where people do not heed the will get the pleasure of Allah, the criterion is not money, fame, or beauty, but a marriage is intended to achieve the pleasure of Allah. For the believers, the only criterion is piety, that is' away from all that is forbidden, did everything they were told, and fear Allah. Similarly, a believer can only marry someone who showed full obedience to God. The people find peace and happiness in this marriage. Here is a verse that has to do with this:

And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind, so that you tend to be and feel reassured him, and made him among you a sense of love and affection. Verily in this is truly there are signs for those who reflect. (Surat ar-Rum, 30: 21)

With the devotion of the bonds only, the believers will surely get a good life in the Hereafter Day. When they would warn each other of virtue and guiding each other to heaven throughout their lives, they also will be close friends forever. Their relationship is as depicted below:

And those who believe, men and women, some of them to be helpers to each other. They sent a ma'ruf, preventing from the evil, establish the prayer, give to charity and they obey Allah and His Messenger. They will be given by God's mercy for Allah Almighty, the Wise. (Surat At-Tauba, 9: 71)
Important wealth and position in the World?
6:29 PM | Author: setiya
Most people believe that life really can be achieved peacefully in this world. This mentality has suggested that a person can find true happiness and get respect from others through wealth. Similar mentality to believe that once met, the fun will last until the end of the world. However, the truth is exactly the opposite. Human beings can never achieve his dream life with the Creator, and the day's reckoner. This is because at the time he was realizing a goal, he began to think of others. Not satisfied with the number obtained, he jump in new business. He did not feel any satisfaction from the new flat, so he saw his neighbor's house is decorated with art, or it may be, because the decor is a stylish house last year, outdated, he pushed for redecorating. Similarly, because the styles and tastes changed drastically, he dreamed of the clothes more recently because he was not satisfied with what he had. Psychology of people who do not believe vividly described in the following verse:

Let the person I dealt with that I have created alone. And I made him a lot of property, and the kids are always with him, and I Relieve him with his field, then he wanted to so I add to it. (Surat al Mudatstsir, 74: 11-15)


Someone sensible and clear berpemahaman will admit that the owners of a large house with more rooms than occupants, luxury cars, or a large wardrobe only able to use a limited part of his property. If you have the biggest house in the world, whether it is possible to enjoy every room at the same time? Similarly, if you have a closet containing a variety of fashionable clothing last, how much can you put in a day? The owner of a large house with dozens of rooms, as an entity of limited space and time can only stay in a room at a time. If you are offered all the delicious food from renowned restaurants, your stomach will hold only a little; if you try to impose more, the result is more of a punishment, not pleasure.


This list can be extended again, but the most surprising fact is that humans are destined to live on a very limited time to enjoy the luxury of his property. Humans quickly towards the end of his life, but he rarely admitted it during his lifetime and considered his wealth would give him eternal happiness, as mentioned the following verse:


He thinks that his wealth could mengekalkannya. (Surat Al Humazah, 104: 3)


Blinded by the power of human wealth, so when he faced a frightening end on the day penghisaban, he still would try to escape punishment by offering his wealth:


They were looking at each other. Infidels had he wanted to atone for (himself) from the punishment of the day with his children, and his wife and his brother, and kindred who sheltered (the world). And the people on the earth and all that ransom can save him. May it not be, the

real hell is the turbulent flame. (Surat al MA'AARIJ, 70: 11-15)


However, some people realize that wealth, prosperity, and wealth that many are under the control of Allah. As such, they are very aware that the position and status is a laugh. Only these people really understand that this property will not save them at the end of the day. Therefore, they did not dare go after valuables in the world. Bragging is not a trait you'll meet the people who simply like this. For never forget the existence of Allah Almighty, they are grateful for what he gave. In return, Allah promises a respectable life and fun for them. People who believe in Allah and devotion to Allah makes the final goal of life as they realize that they can only enjoy the worldly things for a limited period and that earthly things are not equal to the promised eternal abundance. Wealth never make people like that are bound to this life. Instead, make them more thankful and closer to Allah. They address every person and every problem with justice, and tried, with what Allah has given, to achieve His pleasure. Instead of seeking the pleasure of the wealth in this world, they try to obtain Quranic values expected of them, because it really means to realize the position and praise to Allah. Solomon gave an example to everyone as a believer respectable showing these qualities in his life. Having wealth and great power, Solomon clearly stated why he pursued this property:


So he said: "I love the pleasures of good things (horse) that I neglected to remember my Lord until the horse is out of sight." (Surah Sad, 38: 32)


Failure to understand why the worldly possessions in this world to make people forget that they will only be able to use his property for 60-70 years, if they are destined to live for it, and then left the house, the cars, and their children. They do not think that they will be buried alone. Throughout their lives longing for riches that will never be able to enjoy them.


However, those who regard wealth as a savior and ignore the existence of their Creator afford good bitter sadness in this world and in the Hereafter.


Those who disbelieve, possessions and their children, the least able to reject Allah from them. And they are fuel of hell fire. (Surat Ali 'Imran, 3: 10)


Al-Quran has been preaching the end of those who show greed insatiable will to property:


collecting treasure and count, he thinks that his wealth could be mengekalkannya! Nay! Indeed he really will be thrown into the Huthamah, And you know what Huthamah it? The fire of Allah that is turned on, reaching the heart. Indeed fire closed over them, (are they) tied to long poles. (Surat al-Humazah, 104: 2-9)


True wealth owned by people of faith who never showed interest in property in this world and believe in truth that only Allah who gives all things to man. They are the real rich people in this world, they do not restrict their lives just 50-60 years. People who believe the best trading buy heaven with their lives. They prefer the eternal wealth than temporary. Allah tells us about this in the following verse:


Verily Allah has purchased of the believers themselves and their property by providing for their paradise. They fight in the way of Allah and they kill or be killed. The true promise of Allah in the Torah, the Gospel and the Qur'an. And who is more true to his promise than Allah? So cheer up the sale and purchase you've done it, and that's a big victory. (Surat At-Tauba, 9: 111)


For ignoring these facts, they are "bound" to the world will soon understand clearly who was in the right path.