motivation

"Two words", he said.
"Anything?", After the reporter.
"The decision telling."
"How to make a telling decision?"
"One word."
"What's that?"
"Experience."
"How do you draw from the experience?"
"Five said."
"Anything?"
"By making the wrong decision."

Often we avoid the mistakes or failures. We do not want to look stupid, ashamed, or dipecundangi by others. In each of our appearance, while getting along with others, we always want to look perfect. In fact, there is a growing thought that if we make a mistake, then we do not just make us ashamed of ourselves, but also our parents. Why? Because had our parents teach us wrong. That is often thought by most people.

So that we do not embarrass the parents, then we must be perfect. What's worse, parents were often forced her to be perfect, and do not make mistakes / failures. Plus with the environment in which we live and interact. Often an environment not accept people who make mistakes. Moreover, if a mistake was giving it a disgrace to the environment.
These circles that often affect us, so that increases our desire for great is the name to avoid mistakes / failures. However, try to listen to the following wise words: "If you're afraid to make mistakes, then you never really do anything." How so? Let us take an example, something you want done first by almost everybody when adolescence: UP BIKE.

I was always desperate to feel to ride a bicycle (two-wheeled bicycle, not a tricycle). However, when tried for the first time I often fell. I even asked the help of parents or friends, even neighbors, to help me learn the bike. I had forgotten how much I fell off (make mistakes). Until the end I managed to control the bike.

And it turned out, for a new thing we want to do, we will never be straight, but we certainly can if you keep learning. This is also the answer the question: "Who says I do not do anything, if I'd done nothing wrong?" It's true we often do, and we do not or are not making mistakes. For example only, eat. Almost (I say almost, because there are people who do not eat every day) every day we eat. However, if we forget, we also make mistakes while learning to feed themselves. Thus, the unwillingness to make mistakes, we just are in the circle of activities that only it-that's all, did not develop.

This does not mean that everyone is free to make mistakes. Because, there are also people make mistakes, and it was not for his own development, unless the person admits his guilt and wanted to learn. For example, to steal. This too is a form of error, but not a mistake I mean here. In simple terms we can distinguish them: DELIBERATE ERRORS AND MISTAKES ARE NOT KNOWN.
One of the human body is the ability of adaptation. If we were in summer, and all of a sudden going to change the winter season. So, we'll deal with it half to death. This is because our bodies are not familiar with the sudden temperature change. But gradually our bodies will adapt, so that we can continue to survive in the winter. In this adaptation process, we often make mistakes / failures.

Initially we have used two-wheeled bicycle. However, through the learning process we are able to adapt / get used to two-wheeled bicycle. Well, in this learning process we often make mistakes / failures. And, we learn from mistakes / failures. Why in the adaptation process we often make mistakes / failures? Because we do not have the ability to something new. This is our pengatahuan limitations.

So, recognizing the limitations of our knowledge, we are constantly learning to do things that are new. And in it will often happen error / failure. Thus, error / failure is a new knowledge for us, until we get what we want knowledge. That is why I equate the word "mistake" with the word "failure". Although there are types of failures that do not educate. For example, the statement, "I failed to steal the day!" So, the fault / failure is a natural process that must go through to obtain new knowledge (new hope).

Unlike the case with a mistake made on purpose. However, the real in any deliberate mistakes people make mistakes / failures again. For example, to become master thieves, takes a lot of mistakes / failures so good at it. Not only the lessons that are obtained. If we want to improve the quality of our lives, then the deliberate error can provide learning / knowledge new to us. So, not only, how many mistakes you make (whether natural or intentional), but, if we want to improve the quality of our self?
Maybe that's why God is Forgiving, the origin of our intention to improve the quality of ourselves (with a truly repentant). Since each error, whether natural or intentional, actually gives a lesson for us. And it all depends on our views, whether to improve self-esteem or drop?

There is a beautiful sentence from Anthony Robbins, "There is no such things as failure. That there are only results. You always make the result. When it is not desired, you can simply change the action and obtain new results. "This means that any error / failure is the result we have to learn to get the expected results.

Remember! I have often received and studied as a natural mistake because in it there is a learning process. Because in a way that I can continue to DO and GREW!

A question is always: "what is the difference between what I caught and arrested when you feel the world?" We all agree that when we see a red rose is a rose is not a blue or green, but red as me and you are equally witnessing? "Or how can you smell that came to my nose?"
Original nature of the experiences generated through the five senses we do not allow us to give a definite answer to these questions. Even so, experts in the field argue that the results they obtained from various experiments they are old enough to be able to answer the question "Is the world we feel different?" The answer "yes".
There are several major differences between the experience-produced sensory practice each of us. "No two people who live in the same sensory world," according to the neurologist Paul Breslin of Monell Chemical Senses Center [Center for Chemical senses, Monell] in Philadelphia. "The world you see, food that you feel, the smell that you smell - it all felt with your own unique way,"
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If you ask different people who tasted a drink that taste bad if they like it or not then you will receive a different answer. Most will say they do not like. But not all. There will be some who say they do not feel something strange in it, and even some said they enjoyed the drink.
Experts also have observed this kind of diversity in the various experiments on other senses. There are some important differences in each person on the introduction of light and color. "Stephen Tsang from Columbia University in New York said," Our response to light ranging from those who are capable of recognizing a single photon to those who have a disease known as short-sighted , which is very disturbing their ability to see in dim light. "
Samir Deeb, a researcher of the differences in color sensing at the University of Washington, Seattle, concluded his findings in the following statement, "Even among individuals who have normal vision, color perception test showed a large range of differences in how the colors look . "
Subjects [ie, number of people tested in this study] also differ in their responses in tests designed to measure the resistance to pain. One group that touched the water that is slowly heated not withstand the rising temperatures is very small, while the other group was very little affected. One person even said that he had not bothered even when the temperature reaches 49 degrees Celsius, the highest limit acceptable to the human skin without blisters. Bob Coghill, from the Wake Forest Medical School [Walke Forest Medical School], who made a number of experiments, connecting the people who become research subjects in a magnetic resonance imaging devices [magnetic resonance imaging devices] and determine a clear relationship between levels experienced the pain and the amount of brain activity that occur simultaneously in the cerebral cortex. "Perceptions of pain has a very large keberagam," says Jeffrey Mogil of McGill University in Montreal, "and these experiments showed that the differences are real and candid."
Thus there is great individual variability in at least four senses. This means that the organ recipient sight, smell, taste and feel your pain completely different from that of others. Paul Breslin insists the fundamental nature of these findings: "If you consider that almost every thing we know from birth depend on our sensory system, the sensory perbedan individual differences we are far more interesting." In other words, "our lives whole is the result of perception (sensing) us. "
This means that one is dealing with the most important truths of life.
However, the specifics of how such a remarkable complex, interrelated and details of life can persist in such a way that is real and unbroken in a world in which matter exists only as a perception (the senses)? Whose all of this information, and who is the Creator of all the events and the Lord of all things?
Anyone who sincerely think these questions will certainly see the truth. Allah has created man and all sensory abilities (perception) they, in other words their destiny, and Allah is the Lord of their lives at any time. He knows what is happening all the time.
The two events mentioned Allah in the Qur'an may indicate that sensory differences are not limited to the small differences in recognizing colors or pain. The first of these events refer to the Prophet Abraham who feel the U.S. as a cold fire. Almighty Allah gave orders 'O fire be coolness and safety for Abraham! "(Surat al-Anbiya', 21:69), and with his will Abraham did not feel any burning nature of fire. Thus, the Prophet Abraham to feel the fire, which burned hot perceived by everyone, as something cool. In other events, Allah showed that the middle class to fight at his side are a two-fold in the eyes of their enemies:
The revelation that one person described being seen as two people "with their own eyes" is very clear, and suggests that the denial of Allah may have been experiencing sensory differences by looking at a number of people who believe the two. (Wallaahu knows best) These verses indicates that the sensory differences preset by Allah with the knowledge that we can not understand.